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Seek a Great Mentor

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Find a great mentor, who empowers you to grow, encourages you through your failures and celebrates your successes.

  1. Build an ongoing relationship by exchanging thoughts and ideas.
  2. Have two-way conversations.
  3. Ask questions.
  4. Listen to feedback.
  5. Let your mentor know what you did with the information shared.

 

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Carson Employee on front page of Business Section!

B2B ID Wendy Lane Wright, Gazette - Business Page

Daily Hampshire Gazette
B2B ID: Wendy Lane Wright
(Published in print: Monday, July 7, 2014)


 How many on your staff: 400

 

What you do: I cultivate relationships with our supporters and donors as well as raise funds that enable our agency’s mission to serve and improve the lives of 7,000 people each year.

 

I’ve also supported the mission of our agency as a human resource professional, inspiring, coaching and training staff in the programs that strengthen individuals, families and our community.

 

Experience: A native Berkshires girl, I connected with nonprofits when I lost my parents at an early age, attending the local YMCA, which stabilized my life and made me smile when my life got rough, giving me a passion for charitable work.  Early in my career as a wife and mother of three small children, I worked on finding a sustainable way to put food on our skinny table. To make a better life for my family, I became a community volunteer.


 My passion for leadership started when I became an award-winning speaker and community leader as an Extension Specialist at the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. This work fostered a deep desire to help underserved members in my community make positive changes in their lives. So, I decided to attend college, receiving my bachelor’s degree in governmental studies from Smith College with a focus in behavioral psychology, community organization and change.

 

This experience changed my life for the better, and as a life long learner, I have spent the last 24 years in various nonprofit and volunteer capacities sharing that transformational experience with others.

The Market: Carson provides mental health and rehabilitation services. Today, mental illness afflicts one in four adults and one in ten children.

 

How you reach out to it:  Traditional media, radio, publications, email marketing, presentations and social media. I raise visibility by creating a wider network of support in the Greater Springfield area and beyond through community outreach and collaborative partnerships.

 

What financing hurdles have you faced and how have you handled them?  Carson is primarily funded by state contracts, Medicaid, Medicare and private insurance. These sources don’t cover the full cost of services, so I seek funding from foundations, businesses, community supporters and annual fundraisers.

 

Key to success:  I care about people and use my skills and professional abilities to improve their lives.

 

Challenges:  Carson went from serving 4,500 people a couple years ago to serving 7,000 each year, in 40 communities, from Pittsfield to Ware.

 

Misstep you learned from:  The first federal grant I worked on was initially declined, so I quickly learned to forge successful funder relationships to successfully get that grant.

 

What others could learn from you:  How to inspire groups with a call to action and to make positive change.

 

Who helped mentor you professionally?  Ella Hewins, a former colleague at Old Colony Envelope, is a humble lady who cared for her family during the Great Depression, and now in the era of an ever changing service industry, shared, “show up every day, do your best, and make it happen.” Today her words still inspire me.

 

Top goals for 2014:  I have a deep desire to leave my community more stable, one where my neighbors flourish and grow, by doing everything in my power to provide access to the resources and education that they need to accomplish this.

 

Advice for others seeking business success:  Find a great mentor, who empowers you to grow, encourages you through your failures and celebrates your successes.

 

Parting thought:  Believing that we all belong to the family of humanity, and life is finite inspires me to listen to others and work toward lasting change for good.

 

The B2B ID is compiled by Janice Beetle of Beetle Press in Easthampton, a PR and communications firm.  www.beetlepress.com.

http://www.carsoncenter.org/newsandevents/carsonstaffonfront/

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Believing that we all belong to the family of humanity…

Family of Humanity Wendy Lane Wright

“Believing that we all belong to the family of humanity, and life is finite inspires me to listen to others and work toward lasting change for good.”

  

“I have a deep desire to leave my community more stable, one where my neighbors flourish and grow, by doing everything in my power to provide access to the resources and education that they need to accomplish this.”

 

 

 

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Today only comes once, so embrace it!

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Last October, embracing the moment on my travels back from Boston, I took this photo with an I Pad.

May is Mental Health Awareness Month.

This ad shows the great work my colleagues do at The Carson Center everyday!

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Recently I was given the opportunity to create this 19″ visual ad that was published on or around March 31, 2014, in the Westfield News Business & Industry Section.

 

This ad is part of our 2014 campaign.

 

Credit for the Website Banner used goes to our website designers and former Development Director “D.” & “A. B.”

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May 2, 2014 · 11:38 am

“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.” ~Pablo Picasso

Frozen Pond-Hope!

We all belong to the cause of humanity.  Give the gift that inspires you to others.  Just maybe you will inspire someone to hope for something they would not have strived for on their own.

 

Great leaders always inspire others to action.
In a TED Talk by Simon Sinek, as noted in an earlier blog, Sinek uses a powerful illustration noting that Dr. Marin Luther King, Jr., did not send out formal invitations to his speeches, nor did he have the date on a website. Yet, people came to hear him speak, because they believed in what he believed.

 

This inspirational TED Talk reveals that Dr. Martin Luther King did not say, I Have a Plan. Instead he said, I Have a Dream.”  How great leaders inspire action, by Simon Sinek:  http://bit.ly/1atkY1A

 

 

Thank you Martin Luther King, Jr., for giving us hope and a dream for a better and more humane world!

 

 

To continue moving forward, we have to look inward, and then we can look outward and begin to make lasting change~WLW.

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“The earth has music for those who listen.” ~ George Santayana

Winter Garden Bird Bath

The light powdery snow outside my window is beautiful!  It’s a great day to grab a cup of tea as I begin to write out my 2014 goals.

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A few of my favorite tools that I previously blogged about in 2013 are:

  • Nonverbal communication that’s useful for personal and career transformation!  Inspiring TED Talk – Your body language shapes who you are, by Amy Cuddy: http://bit.ly/1bEdio8

 

 

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If it weren’t for great people like you…

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I’m inspired by this card and act of kindness by my colleague, Anne.  We have a professional relationship based on mutual respect.

 

Building mutual respect is essential in building strong and happy relationships.

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I am so inspired by this gift that I’ve been sending a donor, colleague or volunteer a brief note of appreciation each day.

 

I’ve met so many people who just want to see positive change for good in the places they live, work and play.

 

 Autumn Lily Pad Reflections 

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Effective leaders:

 

  •   Don’t lead alone, instead they empower others.

 

  •  Take responsibility for their actions and encourage the responsible behavior of others.

 

  •  Collaborate and follow through on assigned tasks.  Collective experiences and perspectives can foster the best possible ideas, opportunities, solutions and outcomes.

 

  •   Establish and maintain mutual respect by establishing respect for the values and perspectives of others.

 

  •  Use effective communication tools such as reflective listening.  Listening and immediately repeating back what was said, ensuring things were perceived correctly.

 

  •  Have the drive and inspiration to turn challenges into opportunities. “Do what you can, where you are, with what you have”. –Teddy Roosevelt.

The Human Service Forum shared this TED Talk that examines how happiness inspires productivity.  The happy secret to better work: http://bit.ly/17EFWDD

Daniel Goleman shares Don’t Write Off the Coaching Leadership Style:  http://linkd.in/1bt4tj7  This post gives some great tips on how to help employees grow and become more engaged.

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“The best way to resolve any problem in the human world is for all sides to sit down and talk”. ~ Dalai Lama.

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This photo was taken on a long and winding country road.  Fall has always been one of my favorite times of year.  The beauty that surrounds New England is breathtaking.  I always look forward to the change in seasons!

 

This photo was taken so far from Washington and the looming government shutdown.  Yet the lay offs (furloughs) are impacting more and more people everyday.  From nonessential Technicians on our military bases to Early Education…

 

Still our elected officials continue to be paid while also accruing benefits.  Perspective – From the beginning of the government shutdown until its resolve, the least each of you can do is donate all your gross earnings – not  just a portion – to a charity!

 

What will be the legacy of this government shutdown – these elected officials?  

 

As posted in my last blog: What impact will the “Government Shutdown” have on individuals, families, communities, nonprofits and charitable giving, …?  This article by The Chronicle of Philanthropy caught my attention:  http://bit.ly/19YPPO3  “We elect officials to govern, and when they fail in their obligations they get a failing grade from us,” said Diana Aviv, president of Independent Sector, a coalition of nonprofit and foundation leaders said at her organization’s annual meeting today. “Shutting down government hurts communities, it hurts poor people, it hurts families. It’s time for them to get back to the business of governing.”

 

We need to strengthen individuals, families and communities! 

 

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October 4, 2013 · 9:28 pm

Legacy Reflections

Legacy Reflections

I took this amateur photo last Saturday. 

As I reflected, I pondered what I will be remembered for?  What is my legacy to my children, grandchildren, family and community? What can I give?  Time, talent, integrity, love, empathy, resources…?

What do you want to be remembered for?

 

Food, Family & Fun

Food, family and fun!  

I spent last weekend visiting with family and friends.  It was my great nephew’s Birthday.  My nephew smoked a brisket along with some pulled pork.  We had a family picnic by this fireplace – laughing and celebrating life.  

 

Life can be so bittersweet! We laughed and fought back tears, often at the same time.  It was a happy and sad day.  It was the one year anniversary of the death of a family member, “Uncle Piggy“.  Last April he was diagnosed with cancer and passed away on September 28th, 2012.

 

Perspective – My sister and her husband worked their entire life, like so many people, and never had the opportunity to retire.

 

Gone, but not forgotten! “Uncle Piggy” earned his nickname some 35 years ago when he told my sister she was “a piggy for eating coffee ice cream”.

Auntie & Uncle Piggy

His niece looked up with wide and resolute eyes, purposely sharing: “Auntie is not a piggy, you are”!  That nickname stayed with him through my sister’s funeral and his – not just by my family, but by his entire family and all of our extended friends, too.

 

Knowing we all belong to the family of humanity, and life is finite inspires me to listen to others and work toward lasting change for good – Inspire it…Enjoy it…Do it!

 

My boss shared this insightful GuideStar article.  http://www.guidestar.org/rxa/news/articles/2013/befriending-your-donors.aspx?hq_e=el&hq_m=2088457&hq_l=18&hq_v=36f0e74a2a

 

“Self-confidence combined with interest in other people. These are individuals willing to look me in the eye, offer a firm handshake, and show curiosity. They’re willing to engage, and, most important, they show a talent for listening… The first three letters of fundraising are “f-u-n,” after all.”  –  Thomas Wolf

 

Thank you GuideStar for sharing this blog post yesterday on Google+: Teaching philanthropy – yes, it works!  http://ow.ly/phLvk

 

That blog post links to a study on How Parents Teach Charitable Giving matters:
http://www.philanthropy.iupui.edu/news/article/women-give-2013

 

What impact will the government shutdown have on individuals, families, communities, charitable giving, nonprofits…?  This article from Philanthropy Today caught my attention: http://philanthropy.com/article/Government-Shutdown-What-It/142021/?cid=pt&utm_source=pt&utm_medium=en  “We elect officials to govern, and when they fail in their obligations they get a failing grade from us,” said Diana Aviv, president of Independent Sector, a coalition of nonprofit and foundation leaders said at her organization’s annual meeting today. “Shutting down government hurts communities, it hurts poor people, it hurts families. It’s time for them to get back to the business of governing.”

 

What will be the legacy of this government shutdown – these elected officials?

 

We need to help strengthen individuals, families and communities!

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Leadership is not for everyone!

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Like everyone else, a leader must also take time to enjoy life and nurture their own well-being of mind, body and soul.

 

In part, successful leaders are great mentors, coaches, negotiators, and administrators who ensure employees can grow, develop and stay engaged in the workplace.  Ensuring high quality services are delivered by well qualified staff.

 

Exceptional leaders are the primary basis for maintaining, and upholding a strong sense of employee satisfaction and excellent services are delivered, while maintaining fiscal stability.

 

A good administrator ensures the best possible care of staff because they are fundamental to organizational success.

 

Leadership is not for everyone!  To those exceptional leaders who lead by example with integrity and perseverance – THANK YOU!

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Great post on Google+ on the life time value of your work that actually causes some self-reflection on the big picture. http://tombufordmarketing.com/determine-lifetime-value-work/

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September 27, 2013 · 12:59 pm

A Great Mentor Inspires Positive Growth!

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Meet Honey!  She is now 14 years old.  When I first got her, she fit in the palm of my hand.  She makes me smile!

 

During the past 14 years, one manager invested in me and helped me move into the next level of my career.  We learned from each other through upfront conversations, even in difficult times.  An excerpt of what he wrote “A great deal has been accomplished during a very problematic year.  As we review these accomplishments and plan for the future, we need to be realistic and optimistic.  It has been great working with you Wendy.  I look forward to planning for the future and putting our plans into operation.”   He set realistic benchmarks, performance expectations and mutually agreed upon goals.

 

Prior to my evaluation, I had to rate my performance on 37 benchmarks and goals; he would separately complete the evaluation.  Then we had a two-way conversation.  Prior to those meetings, I recall my hands feeling cool and clammy like a cucumber.  Though I dreaded those conversations, I grew.

 

Our discussions often gave us  different perspectives and ideas that got results.  Why?  We had a meaningful professional relationship based on mutual respect.  I valued his opinion; he valued my effort, ideas and feedback.  My work had value!

 

Under his leadership, as noted in a performance review I “established meaningful professional relationships, respected by clients, funders, staff and other area professionals”.  Within six months of being employed, I was promoted me to his Senior Management Team.  I stayed on his team, until he retired.

 

A great mentor inspires positive growth!  When you do find the balance of a mutually beneficial relationship it inspires profound growth, engagement and results.

 

Everyday, I am inspired by all the meaningful relationships that empower me to care, have empathy, continually learn, grow and change.  That is what inspires me to make a difference where I live, work and play.

 

The Human Service Forum shares a great read by Forbes: 6 Reasons Leaders Make Bad Decisions https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/?shva=1#inbox/1411231666bde2b6

 

“Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much”. ~ Helen Keller

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Inspiring Leadership

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I was privileged to speak at the Urban Youth Collaborative Program (UYCP) Gala, at The Log Cabin on August 22, 2013.

 

Family members of my late Executive Director attended the Gala, because an award was being presented in his honor.

 

I began the speech with – Be inspired and empowered to make a difference. “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” ~ Lori Siebert

 

At the end of my presentation, I received a thunderous applause by attendees. I also received double thumbs-up, a contagious smile and a strong hug by the inspirational leader who has led this program for 22 years.  Then the son of my late Executive Director crossed the room, gave me a hug and thanked me.  I was so deeply humbled.

 

Here are a few selections from that speech:  David was a humble man, who would often send me out to speak for him.  As my mentor, he would want me to share:  What a beautiful day it is for the 22nd Gala!  Looking back, I was privileged to be present for 18 Gala’s.  I can’t make this one, but my thoughts are with you.

 

You know what’s special about the UYCP?  You are!  Yes, you make UYCP special!  You have dedicated your time and talent to make life a little better for yourself; and for the children and adults you have worked with.  Thank you!

 

You transform our community.  Your voices bring excitement and joy!

 

As a mentor, the songs you sing, the games you play, the skits you perform, the art classes, the swings and slides and rock climbing, even the sound system blaring away – all bring new life and excitement to the area.  It is really special.

 

I closed the speech with – The Urban Youth Collaborative Program is a vital workforce leadership development program across the State of MA.  This program is vital in making a difference in lives of the people we serve.  Some day maybe it will be a National program, but for now it is making a difference in our community.

 

To continue moving forward, we have to look inward, before we can look outward and make lasting change.

 

If you don’t think there is a need for such a program in our community then I invite you to share your thoughts with me after the Gala.

 

Together we are a kaleidoscope of humanity building on our collective experiences, perspectives, and cultures to ensure the best possible thinking, ideas, opportunities and solutions are considered as we work to provide quality services for every member of our shared community, including those with developmental disabilities and behavioral issues.

 

Why is the Urban Youth Collaborative Program so important? You are the next generation of community leaders!

 

I will leave you with a quote:  “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou

 

Thank you!

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“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” ~Lori Siebert

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I am in the process of writing a speech that I’ve been asked to deliver at an upcoming Gala. 

 

 

In preparation I looked back through previous speeches that I have written and found the following Excerpt from a Groundbreaking Award Ceremony.  “We have a lot of reasons to say “thank you” David for all the contributions that you have made over the last 31 years. 

 

 

The first thought that comes to mind is the extraordinary effort you’ve put into everything you’ve done.  You have transformed so many lives through your work, including the time you have dedicated as a volunteer serving on the boards of local, regional and state nonprofits to build stronger communities.  

 

David began his long and dedicated career by playing an instrumental role in bringing children out of the Belchertown State School and finding ways to integrate those children into their community.  He worked to get them into group homes, apartments, involved them in public schools, and gave them access to area parks and shopping malls.  Although there is more work to be done in this area today, we thank you David, for the ground work you started by being part of this exciting and challenging national movement. 

 

No job is easy all of the time and some people would say your work David as an Executive Director is not easy.  But you always have an optimistic outlook on what historically has been done, a vision of what needs to be done, and a strategic plan for what will get done. 

 

David’s famous words around the office are “to be continued”, and David we thank you for all the innovative contributions that you continue to make in our agency and community.” 

 

David has since passed away.  He was an inspirational leader who empowered me and all those around him to grow.  He was a true change agent that made life better for others.

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