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Random Acts of Kindness


“How wonderful is it that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.” ~Anne Frank

I am off to buy a coffee on this icy morning, and buy one for the person in line behind me.

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And the day came…

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” ~Anais Nin


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“If we change our thoughts from ‘it’s too late’ to, ‘there’s still hope’, we might see some change in the world.” ~Kellie Elmore

Inspirational Leaders

Think of someone who inspired you and made a positive impact in your life.  Maybe a colleague, teacher, counselor, coach, youth leader…

When you’re inspired to make a positive impact in someone else’s life, you’ll make a positive impact in your life too, and build a partnership of trust and mutual respect.

Be inspired to turn challenges into opportunities. “Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can”. ~Arthur Ashe

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February 11, 2014 · 12:47 am

“A room without books is like a body without a soul.” – Cicero

Autumn - Jane Eyre & Cup of Tea

Happy Sunday everyone!  It’s a good day to take a walk, and enjoy a book with a hot cup of tea.

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“Change your thoughts and you can change your world” ~ Norman Vincent Peale

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Tuesday Tips

Talk about nonverbal communication that’s useful for personal and career transformation!  Thank you Future Works Career Center for sharing this very inspiring TED TalkYour body language shapes who you are, By Amy Cuddy:

I recently used this very simple, yet phenomenal donor retention calculation tool to create an updated donor-centered strategy:

I use this outline tool when comparing agency priorities with a foundation areas of interest:

As I dredged through my Monday morning sea of emails, I smiled as I opened the following collegial and uplifting message from Pamela Grow:

“Good morning Wendy, If you’ve been looking to land more corporate sponsorships for your organization, you’re going to love this series of free videos from Chris Davenport and Shanon Doolittle (two of my favorite people in the whole world).

Check ‘em out.

Thanks.  Wishing you an amazing week!”


I would like to pay this collegial and uplifting spirit forward and wish all of you an amazing week, too!


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We Learn From Others

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I learn from others, grow and change,  as I attend or present at workshops, take webinars, read blogs and read relevant publications to constantly be on top of the changes in the nonprofit landscape.


Based on your feedback, I have decided to continue my regular Friday posts and will helpful resources and tips that I find at low-cost or no cost – Tuesday Tips.


I don’t know about you as the readers of this blog, but I love and dread networking events.  By participating, I learn what is important to others. What are they interested in.  What tools and resources they find helpful.


In August, I attended a networking event for the Association for Fundraising Professionals, Western MA Chapter. I am a former member of that association with eligibility to rejoin, so it was fun to meet newer members and find old friends.  I enjoyed our discussions.  Below are some resources and links based on those discussions, as well as a lens into my process when seeking and writing a grant.


If your organization doesn’t have a professional account with the Foundation Center you can create your own at:;jsessionid=MFVSMIPJEP4WJLAQBQ4CGXD5AAAACI2F  I have found the information on this site helpful.  You can track the courses you complete, and some are free.  There is even a short introduction on how to write a grant proposal.


I also use the following link when I am doing grant research and/or learning about the interest areas of a grantor:


This is one blog that I do make time to read:   It is full of very helpful resources and links.


A great workshop I recently attended was Empowering Your Stakeholders to Become Network Weavers, presented by Debra Askanase:


Prior to this workshop I did not consider myself a network weaver.  Yet, in person I am, but I am always learning and will now weave the resources and tips I learned into my social media strategy.  Thank you Debra Askanase and Women in Philanthropy of Western MA.  I will start small by exploring and networking a little more on Twitter and Google+.


Still, there is only so much time in a day.  Like some of my colleagues who attended the workshop that day, all my social media time is now spent outside work hours.  Still, I am and learning.  Thank you for your patience!


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Last Friday, with an invitation by my C.E.O., I also attended an inspiring breakfast hosted by our local Business Chamber at Barnes Air National Guard Base.  I was so humbled to get an update of the changes, updates and vision for this Base and the 104th Fighter Wing.  It was nice to learn about the support of the local community as well as the collaboration and support from the Local, State and Federal Governments.  The changes and ongoing activities range from facility enhancements to supporting service members and their families.


My thoughts and prayers are with every member of our armed forces who serve, or have served our Country.


My condolences go out to the U.S. Navy, their families, friends and communities for the recent tragedy and losses this week.


According to media sources this tragedy allegedly happened by someone afflicted with Mental Illness.  A statistic from the National Alliance on Mental  Illness: 1 in 4 adults and 1 in 10 children experience mental illness:

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Doctors Without Borders

Praying for Peace

My thoughts are with the people of Somalia and all those who take part in the Doctors Without Borders Program that is ending.


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Inspiring Camp Spirit

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“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou


One counselor shouts encouragement to Lee as she pushes his wheelchair on the pavement in a spirograph motion.  A smile illuminates across Lee’s face as he watches the artwork he’s creating with sidewalk chalk that’s fastened to his footrests.  He laughs as he shouts faster, left, right, bigger, bigger, bigger!


Every eye is now captivated by Lee’s excitement, as campers and counselors from the nature trail to the playscape move closer. Creating a circle of encouragement around him.  Every person is clapping and shouting, “Go Lee, go!”


Although Lee moves around using a wheelchair, his contagious smile and boasting pride show he’s just like any other kid at summer camp.  He’s having fun, learning, growing and developing a sense of belonging – he’s included.


Lee has attended camp for more than a decade. Last year his mother said, “No other camp in our area provides this level of safety and inclusion.  I worry about what will happen to Lee, if something happens to me.  I am hopeful, because Lee’s not just attending camp. He’s building a community and support network of life-long friends.”


*Name and other details are disguised to preserve confidentiality.

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Pondering the path of perseverance and leadership

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Yesterday, I celebrated my Aunt Ella’s 93rd Birthday.  She is a humble woman who cared for her family during the great depression, and now the era of an ever-changing service industry.

As I reflected on Aunt Ella’s perseverance and path in life, I also thought about some other leaders that I know who are mentors, coaches and play a role in ensuring employees grow, develop and stay engaged in their work. Not always an easy task.

I had no idea one of the Interns I laid off, and later rehired, would be speaking at a conference; and he did not know I would be in the audience.  Yet, he delivered such a captivating and riveting leadership speech to his peers and State Officials that I had goose bumps, and had to fight back the tears.

This is a small except of K’s speech given at the State House in Boston:  “I had worked at Camp for a couple of summers.  In 2008, we were very aware of the economic crisis and the threat that it posed to our program, and I cannot begin to recall the number of letters that were written to the people who work in this building, pleading for the funding to keep us open. We managed to get through that summer, and, after a long winter of uncertainty, I applied again to Camp.

Things looked bleak as the summer began. To put it succinctly, Wendy let me know the camp did not have funding to hire me. Soon enough, though, I received a call explaining that Camp was being run by Interns and, as luck would have it, a position had become available.  I eagerly accepted the job of Recreation Specialist.”

Five years ago, we were on the cusp of the global economic downturn and my agency merged into another agency that had a new culture and values.

I considered leaving and specializing, but had just come from a staff leadership position in a capital campaign, asking for donor funds.  We had just completed the construction of a new building for our programs; and those programs experienced significant budget cuts.  Ethically, I could not just walk away from our donors who made that building possible, or our program participants.

At the time there was already two development staff working on fund development.  My new development role was solely as a grant writer.  Although I did share that securing grants is not long-term sustainable funding;  I had to seek urgent grant funding for our programs.

In 2009, budget cuts got much worse.  The day before our summer camp opened we lost the state funding that provided financial aid to at-risk campers so they could attend camp, and paid for staff positions.

In my HR role, I was solely accountable to lay off many staff who I knew had great leadership potential based their qualifications, experience, background and aspirations.  That was a very bad day for staff, campers, their families and our donors.

The camp program was then staffed by a State sponsored college intern program. We opened camp, but with less campers and staff. Why?  Because Camp is a loved community program due to our inclusive approach in working with campers with and without disabilities – beautiful children from all walks of life.

The Camp has opened every year since 1975, at a time when children with disabilities had no place to go in the summer and remained at home while their siblings and peers could go to summer camps. When an innovative group of parents and professionals decided to start a summer camp that would include them in the mainstream of traditional youth activities. This model of full-inclusion to learn, grow, and play continues today.

Campers attend camp so parents can work during the summer months.  Every summer parent’s share that Camp helps their child develop skills in positive socialization, increased self-esteem, physical activity, self-control, anger management, and daily living skills.

For me, there is always opportunity to be inspired, learn, grow and change. I’ve been seeking a full-time position to specialize, and when my family can afford it, I do intend to complete the application and testing required for certification.

In June my esteemed full-time development colleague left.  She handled everything in fund development, except grant writing and our very recent shared role in marketing.

Now I am moving away from human resources and grant writing; and falling rapidly forward into fund development.  It is a little daunting because most of the Development Officers I have known, experience very high turnover rates.

Yet, I started down the path of fund development 23+ years ago, as a mom and community volunteer to make a lasting change for good where I work, play and live.

(*Ella was my colleague and mentor, who later became my Aunt through marriage.)

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What Inspires Me: The Gift of Friendship

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While spending time in my back yard taking this amateur photo, I reflected on how in college, I not only immersed myself in courses like the business ethics of multi-national corporations and international politics, I also had the opportunity to interact with people from different parts of our shared global community. I liked that because I am not an island of one; no Country is an island of one; we are all part of a global community that spans across our entire world.

For the past 15 years, I have been inspired to continue learning from people in our shared global community. Mostly college-aged employees who take part in a local YMCA that sponsors an international work exchange program.  Every summer, my family and I get to know a couple of these employees.  Because they are so far from home, we host a dinner party at our home, in their honor. They rave about getting a home cooked meal and the gift of mere hospitality, fun, laughter and friendship.

Una and Chris, both from Ireland, met in America through their work at the YMCA.  I cooked a New England-Irish dinner on their behalf with corned beef, onions, potatoes, carrots and cabbage.  When I told Una what was for dinner she asked “is corned beef like ground beef”?  Imagine in a kaleidoscope of different cultures and food, they never had a New England-Irish dinner.  Not until they met me.

Because I often work long hours, the entire meal was cooked in multiple crock pots.  I also cook no fuss meals so I can actually visit with guests. As I was slicing the rather large slab of corned beef, I invited them to watch.  With collegial curiosity, wide and resolute eyes they watched me plate the entire meal.  There were no left overs. We had many laughs and shared many stories.

They have come back to see us a couple of times. When we get together, they do not laugh about the large slab of corned beef, but about the first time they ate boiled onions.

I am inspired by this mere gift of friendship.

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Be Inspired…Inspire Others…

I am a change agent that loves to help donors, volunteers and employees use their time, talent and treasure to make lasting change for good – Inspire it…Enjoy it…Do it…Wendy Lane-Wright


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